“Prayer is simply talking with God where you can reveal your deepest hurts and emotions. You can tell God, honestly, what is on your heart. Unburden yourself before God and know that He hears you, cares for you and loves you beyond imagination.” – Dr. Ramona

My entire being is tired. For over 20 years, I have labored in prayer, cried, begged, become more submissive, spoke up less, been more forgiving, more loving, less verbal, become more invisible, encouraged more, followed all over the state, covered sin after sin without any repentance and waited for God to act on my and my children’s behalf. I am depleted. Praying for God to break/humble my husband/pastor or remove us from living in this abuse. My son told me today that the only reason he is still home is because of me. This is no way to live. Let him see and feel himself as he really is and how much he hurts us and others in his life.

Lord, I’m confused and not sure what to do as I am trying to hear You. Am I on the path you desire for me, should I stay or should I go. I do not know if I am victimizing myself or if my wife is emotionally abusive (non-physical). How can I know? I feel alone and scared. As a man this makes me feel small and less than and adds fuel to her words when I don’t “man up.” Not even sure what that means anymore. She is not evil and I know she is not the enemy. Thankful this is not a daily occurrence. Help me Jesus and thank You for Moody Radio. Amen.

My daughter was attempting to free herself from an abusive relationship and suddenly changed course, gave into fear and moved back in with the abuser. Now she’s worse than ever and has cut off all communications with her family and friends and is totally under his control. Please pray for strength & wisdom for her and protection for her & my 8 year old granddaughter.

Thank you for your ministry! It has been 17 years since I left an abusive marriage that lasted 25 years. I am happily remarried but my 2 adult children are single and in their 30s and making poor choices. I feel like the pain in our family never ends. I prayed the cycle of abuse would be broken and for healing for my adult children. I don’t see it happening. Thank you for your prayers.

Please pray for my wife who is divorcing me. I have recently been able to see and admit to the emotional and psychological abuse that I have suffered under over the course of our 20+ yr relationship. This is not a welcome revelation from a man, which leaves me few places to turn. I have been aware of her detached and narcissistic behaviors from the beginning but I was convinced that I was the problem. She has convinced family and friends and COUNSELORS that I am an abusive monster and have had an affair on her. These are complete and utter falsehoods.

I believe with my whole heart that she is bound by her alcoholic upbringing. Her heart is so walled in that she cannot accept love and gain the wonder and beauty of such freedom to be loved.

Whether we end up divorced or not (I do not want this) I am deeply concerned that she will continue to live in a false reality and not come to realize the affects of her actions. This is not only destroying her and our marriage but our children as well. I desire God to reveal to her the pain that created her detached relationship style. I pray that the spirit will guide her heart to the wounds that created this in her. The source is revealed to her.
And, lastly, that she will find forgiveness in her heart for my contribution to triggering her and bring these things out of her.

I’ve been with my husband 36 yrs. I was 17 and he was 26 when we met. I think I suffer more from mental and emotional abuse…from the beginning there has been affairs up until recent as last month. I think I’ve snapped and I don’t know how to take care of myself…my work is suffering…I think I’m to blame…I should give him another chance…and to many other things to go on! I need prayer for my sanity and to know what is the right thing to do. I told him I didn’t want to with him anymore…he threatens suicide and the next day he’s getting busy getting stuff done. I know God is present…but His Spirit seems to be silent within me. Thank you for your prayers I need protection from my thoughts.

Request prayer for God’s wisdom, and strength as I undergo the legal separation process from an abusive husband. Please pray for my kids as well (16 and 10). I often feel anxiety about whats going to happen next in the process, especially when he is manipulative and gossip lover. I am afraid often but try to call out to God several times a day and refocus on God. Please pray for me to trust God more and in His love and grace. Pray for Godly and timely wisdom to be given as I feel that’s my weak area.
Thank you so so much. I was blessed listening to Doctor on Moody Radio today.

For God to give me strength to call the police when my husband is being abusive.. 4 me not to feel alone and broke… to find a job that can support my 6 children and i…to get the i need…in Jesus name. Amen

Recently got divorce from abusive husband. Supposed to be out of parsonage by July 1. My kids and I are needing a place to live and I need a decent job to sustain us.